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She has no sensation in her vagina and clitoris. She began having sex at fourteen, but has never had an orgasm. She has to use a vibrator to feel anything, but lately she has been feeling nothing. She has been on birth control for over a year, and wonders if this might be the problem. How can she restore her vagina?
Case #: 1565
Concern：
I think I have a dead vagina and clitoris because it is really numb down there. I had sex when I was 14, but I have never had an orgasm. In order to feel any sensation I have to use a vibrator, but I'm not feeling anything anymore. I have been on birth control for over a year, but I don't know if this is relevant at all. I want my vagina to become alive again, so I can start feeling, and probably experience my first orgasm!
Discussion：
There are two issues here, one large, and one not so big. Your big issue is your complete loss of sensation. This is the result of your birth control. Your smaller issue is your general desensitization. This is due to continual vibrator use. You must first cleanse your body of the buildup of hormonal birth control, as well as the scar tissue from your vibrator use, then you will begin to feel.
Help Me, Hormones!
Hormonal birth control sometimes has an interesting effect on women. It’s meant to keep women from becoming pregnant, whilst still able to enjoy sex. Yet sometimes, women on birth control experience a loss of sexual desire, or a lack of sexual sensation. This is due to the body’s response to the hormonal birth control.
Your body naturally produces estrogen and progesterone—you wouldn’t be a woman if it didn’t. However, hormonal birth control also contains estrogen and progesterone, and this is where the problems start. Because your body has sensed that there is now another source of hormones coming in, it becomes a bit confused. Does it continue to make hormones? Does it stop making hormones? Does it make hormones, but not as much as before?
In all instances, the body’s hormonal systems are thrown off-kilter. In most instances, the woman is able to continue her normal sex life, albeit with some small potential issues. However, in your case, your body’s hormonal systems have been disrupted to the point that you’ve lost sexual sensation. This is due to your body having stopped producing enough estrogen.
Packing On the Prolactin
Occasionally, women with low estrogen on hormonal birth control develop a disorder in which the body begins producing prolactin, a hormone that normally doesn’t exist in females outside of immediate post-partum. Prolactin deprives the sex organs of sensation, and can also cause an aversion to sex to develop, especially in couples. However, as soon as estrogen levels are increased, this problem recedes, because of the inverse relationship between estrogen and prolactin.
Luckily, estrogen levels also control oxytocin levels, the hormone required for female orgasm. As soon as you increase your estrogen, you will regain your ability to feel and experience orgasm. However, you must stop relying on your vibrator!
So Good, But So Bad
Using a vibrator over time causes scar tissue buildup, which impedes your ability to feel, and the amount of blood than can reach your sex organs, resulting in stagnation and decreased sensation. You must detoxify your body of this harmful substance, and from the excess sex hormones resulting from your hormonal birth control, before you can have sufficient stimulation to reach orgasm.
Fix It!
I recommend using this herbal formula. It contains detoxifying and cleansing herbs, such as Dong Quai, but also powerful aphrodisiacs, such as Epimedium and Cistanche. (SEE: Herbal Formula for Clitoral Passion and Sensitivity Enhancement) The use of such a powerful remedy will soon have you feeling again, and much more than before! I’m sure you’ll have an orgasm in no time.
What to do
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